Should You Worry?

Author: T Dub Jackson

Breakups hurt. There’s no two ways about it. No matter what side of the breakup you’re on there’s plenty of hurt to go around. Granted that when you’re the one who was blindsided with the breakup there’s a little extra hurt involved – on top of the confusion and anger.

Some people are able to move on faster than others after a breakup. There are many reasons for this. Some will say that some people love more deeply than others but that isn’t always the case either. Some people were just better prepared and able to get closure much faster than others are. But there are other things that you can do to move past the pain of your breakup.

But first, are you really ready to move on and give up on the idea of getting your ex back? Or, are you still hurting because you’re convinced that this relationship was something special and is still worth saving?

If you’re still interested in moving past the pain I recommend learning the Fast Forward Method I teach my students. This method allows you to “fast forward” through some of the most emotionally painful aspects of breaking up with someone you love. Or, more to the point, being broken up with by someone you still love.

Why Fast Forward?

When you’re in pain you don’t always think as clearly as you would otherwise. Your mind and heart are clouded by the pain and logic isn’t going to be your strongest ally at times like these.

By fast forwarding through the pain you’ll be able to get back on your feet much more quickly. You’ll be able to make important decisions about your future and the role of your ex in that future when your heart isn’t constantly overriding your mind with thoughts of “stop the pain” and “get her back now!”

The fast forward technique is highly effective at helping you speed through the various stages of pain most people experience following a breakup. In the meantime there are a few other things you can do to help keep the pain at bay.

• 1) Lean on your friends. Your real friends will be there for you in the good times and in the bad times. They can be a source of commiseration, inspiration, laughter, and even a good kick in the rear when one is called for.
  
  
• 2) Get away from the painful reminders. If your home is filled with reminders, box them up. If you can’t look at your walls without remembering the time you painted them, hire someone else to paint them a different color. Don’t wrap yourself up in painful memories. They will hold you back from moving on.
  
  
• 3) Find something to look forward to. Now is the time to do one thing that is completely selfish and all about you. Do something daring and fun – something you’ve always wanted to do but didn’t because you were in a relationship. Plan for it. Schedule it. Mark it on your calendar and spend a few weeks looking forward to it. Try it. It really does help.
  

But, if you really want to get past the pain of your breakup there’s really only one thing that’s going to make that happen. You’ll have to eliminate that pain by making up and going through the process it takes to get your ex back. Watch this FREE video -> http://magicofmakingup.com that shows you step by step what you need to do from your opening move forward to make that happen.

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